Lip
service. That's when men tell women what they want to hear. "No, honey,
I wasn't checking her out. You're much better looking than her anyway."
But in reality, there are many secrets men keep. They have somehow just
figured out that the key to a better relationship is to lock their
lips.
Secret 1: He looks at other womenAll straight men
will check out other women. However, I personally feel it's
disrespectful for a man to do this while he's with his woman. I respect
men who do not look at me when they are with their wives or
girlfriends.
Secret 2: He doesn't like you earning more than him Earning money makes men feel important. It's a blow to their ego when the woman has more earning power.
Secret 3: He likes to masturbateWomen take offense when their
partners pleasure themselves because it makes us feel inadequate. This
is why most men keep this a secret from us.
Secret 4: He is terrified you'll become his motherIt's a fine
line, they like to be mothered and be taken care of by you (pick up his
socks, make the bed, etc) but he doesn't like to be completely babied
(aka no nagging or telling him what he should do). Men! Freaking have
your cake and eat it, why don't you?
Secret 5: His buddies are more fun than youTime spent with buddies is a time of male bonding that is greatly needed, no matter how much he cares for you.
Secret 6: He loves you very muchMen may not say it as much as
women do. But it's in his actions, the little things he does to make
your life a better, more comfortable one.
So instead of waiting for an undying declaration of love - look for
those little gestures which show rather than tell you how he feels.
Secret 7: He wishes for his youth againThere's always
that boy in every man... no matter what his age. They look back at their
teenage years, or their 20s and reminisce about the days when life was
good, fun and free of responsibility. His brain will omit the bad stuff
of that period and remember only the good. Hence, he will always wish he
was in that phase again.
Secret 8: He is insecure tooMen may never admit they're bothered
by their receding hairline, growing beer belly, or the fact that
they're hung like My Little Pony instead of a stallion.
Secret 9: He hangs with other womenIf he's hanging with a female
co-worker (or co-workers) for lunch every weekday at work. It is likely
that he will leave out that bit of information and never bring it up.
Men know that women tend to get irrationally jealous over such things
("What? You got no one else to eat with?! Let me start packing you
lunches from now on so you can sit at your desk alone.").
Secret 10: He wants to be aloneNot all the time... but once in a
while. Men don't bring this matter up because they think we'll get
insulted. So instead, he finds ways to avoid you or tells little white
lies so he can chill on his sofa and watch football alone some nights.
